The reasons why women leave relationships are many fold however they generally stem from much larger issues that break away into smaller ones. It doesn’t take much for women to feel neglected; it is also just as easy for her to feel rewarded within her relationship, it’s all up to her man.
Here are 3 of the top reasons why women leave their men:
#1: Infidelity
It is very hard for a woman to regain 100% trust for their man after infidelity occurs. Many relationships continue after this happens but your women will always have that nagging feeling that you’re either going to do it again or are doing it.
Infidelity comes in 2 forms the first of which is the one night stand; the other is the outright affair. The one night stand is much easier for a woman to overcome than the affair where feelings were involved, the last thing that your women wants to think is that you told another women that you love them, this will almost always make a women leave.
In either case my suggestion is that you find a way to re-establish that bond that you once had otherwise you’ll have a real tough time getting her trust back.. If you are married and you want to keep your women at home then you should strongly consider renewing your vows.
Let your women know that you are sorry for what you did and that you want to renew and re-state your total dedication to her and you will have a real chance at wiping the slate clean.
#2: Neglect
Another reason why women leave is because they feel like you could care less about the relationship. How a woman gets to this point is essentially because you don’t spend quality time with her. You live in the same house but live different lives.
Women want their men to share in their interests and hobbies not to have entirely different agendas of their own. This is a very easy thing to overcome; all you have to do is make some minor sacrifices. Start participating with her in the things she enjoy’s, show your women that you’re thinking about her by sending her flowers on a random day for example. Women are not that hard to please you just need to respect the fact that women want more than just a lover, they want a friend too.
#3 Drinking Alcohol Every Night
This has been creeping up over the years as a fairly common reason why women leave their men. I have friends who claim this to be their primary reason for leaving their men. Their men come home from work and immediately begin drinking. This boils down to confidence, women want a confident man. I believe that the root reason why women leave in this case is lack of confidence. A women might think; Why does he need to drink all night, he must be un-happy?
There are ways for you to get help if your drinking is getting out of control, just because you like to drink during the week doesn’t necessarily make you an alcoholic. If you really love your women and want to keep her around than find a way to get you’re drinking under control and perhaps limit it to the weekends only. This is becoming a very common reason why women leave.
There is a book that you might want to read called The Magic of Making Up written by a gentleman named T.W. Jackson. This book is a real eye opener and it is not just for people in conflict, this is a must read for anyone looking for solid advice on relationships. The Magic of Making Up woke me up to allot of things that I never thought of in terms of long term relationship advice.
His suggestions are all total common sense but somehow escape many of us. In this case the advice on relationships that T.W. hands out is totally unconventional, things that you will not hear from the $100.00 per hour relationship doctor’s or get from most relationship books. You might want to check this out for yourself by clicking the link below, you can start by watching an under 10 minute video where T.W. talks about the power of acceptance.
http://www.squidoo.com/Getting-Ex-Back-2
